and in my infinite amounts of time, i was inspired by my friend megan and created my own thirty before thirty goal list.
i have four years remaining before i turn thirty, therefore, i've set some very long term goals and goals that require a longer-than-usual time (like eighteen months or more.) i've also tried to divide the goals into ones i can accomplish and focus on here in cambodia, and those i'll have to work on once i return to the united states. i like this because it allows me to really build up all those things i promised myself i would- like staying in better touch with friends, reading more, and actually saving money.
i tried to divide the goals into areas of my life that are important to me, and create manageable, but work-required goals, you know?
Self Improvement
Physical
- Run four times a week at least 3 months
- Run two 10k races
- Return to mid-college weight and maintain for at least 2 years (this is about 5-7 pounds less than what I weighed at my wedding)
- Eat no overly-processed foods for at least one month
Mental/Spiritual
- Learn meditation techniques and meditate once a week for at least 4 months
Financial
- Create and stick to a monthly budget wherein I save at least 10% of my current salary each month so that I can pay for travel and items that I want. Maintain at least 3 years.
Continual Learning
- Buy a DSLR and take a class/ read books so that I can take 10 pictures that I'm proud of.
- Enroll in class/find tutor to learn to play cello so that I can play at least 10 songs well (5 of which are easy, 5 medium-hard.)
- Buy a sewing machine and take classes so that I can create 5 gifts for others.
- Enroll in business class(es) so that I can learn basics for running my own small business.
Travel and Language
- Return to Italy, especially Rome and Florence
- Visit at least 5 new countries
- Score at least Advanced Mid on Close of Service LPI in Khmer
- Find way to continue to use Khmer in U.S.A.
- Buy Rosetta Stone so that I can return to level of proficiency in Italian
Things I Love
Baking
- Research and perfect ~50 recipes, including:
- 15 cookies recipes
- 15 cake/cupcake recipes
- 8 pie recipes
- 15 "other"/bar/special recipes
- Take culinary classes on the following:
- Pastries
- Cake decorating
- Sauces & Soups
- Undecided other
- Seek out ways to and begin to offer/sell my baked goods to family, friends and community
Blogging
- Comment on 3 blogs a day for at least 3 months
Reading
- Read at least 4 books a month for at least one year
- At least 1 of the 4 must be nonfiction
Writing
- Craft ten short stories
- Outline and begin to draft novel
Knitting
- Actually finish a scarf for Chris. Maybe, MAYBE, attempt a blanket.
Relationships
Marriage
- Develop and honor a once a week date night and maintain for at least six months
- Do something kind/loving for Chris twice a week for at least six months
- Prepare mentally, physically and financially to have a child
Family and Friends
- Write one email or call one person a week for at least eighteen months
- Send a "just because" card or homemade item to a family or friend once a month for at least eighteen months
Career
- Take necessary credits/classes to renew teaching certificate
- Secure a job that excites/fulfills my passions, but also allows me to balance my work and life
the items in green are those i am going to work on/accomplish while in cambodia.
i'm pretty excited about this list- it took me a good while to put it together! i'll definitely be posting about items as i accomplish them- and inevitably running into challenges as i try.
what items do you think will be most difficult or rewarding? what goals do you have for the next five years?
Good luck with the list, it's good that you've got 5 years to do them over.
ReplyDeleteI struggle with the list I've set myself as it's all got to be done by next March and life just keeps getting in the way.
Can't wait to read about what you're getting up to
Ooh ooh I'll teach you to sew!! And can we take some of those culinary classes together? i.e. pastries and cake decorating? I think I want to take a knife skills class too... I set my reading goal to be 30 books in 2 years, which I'm only now realizing is low because it's essentially the rate I already read. I was looking to UP the amount I read. Maybe I should double it?? Plus I'm counting books I listen to ... is that fair?
ReplyDeleteI love your list, can't wait to see updates on how it's going!