i have lived the last year using, and rotating, the same thirteen pairs of underwear.
it has involved a lot of (hand)washing of those little undies, but, to be honest, i haven't noticed.
(beyond the holes and general stretched-out-ness those thirteen pairs now possess.)
but it did provide a physical manifestation of a through-necessity mantra that topher and i have been living by for the past 13 months:
less.
living on $1-$3 a day, rotating the same four skirts and seven shirts at work, and then the same ten tee shirts and three pairs of pants at home, while rocking the same dingy, hole-y thirteen undies has helped me see that in america, i sincerely lived on too much. bought too many clothes. ate too much food. spent too much money.
i'd like to maintain my mantra of less when we return next year. chris and i have already discussed how to set better boundaries for not going overboard- on eating, on spending, on living- when we come home. we've both found that we enjoy making things work with less money, with less resources. it's cliche to say it, but it helps us appreciate it all the more, ya know?
and this has to mean something coming from a girl who proudly owned over 400 pairs of underwear prior to this Cambodian adventure!
(let's be honest- i really miss my wide assortment of undies. i've been saving ten pair for my second year and it feels.so.good to wear them for the first time.)
(also, i wish i cared less about the two grey hairs i found at my front hairline this morning. i'm not even yet 27, people. tell me i'm not alone.)
thoughts?
One of my friends went a year without buying any new clothes/shoes/accessories and I really liked her reasoning about having enough so I tried it too. Last year, I made it to May and then moved to a different climate and broke down. This year, I'm through August. I really like what the exercise has done for me mentally - I have more time to focus on priorities (instead of killing time window shopping, actually shopping, etc.), I'm aware of the blessings of choosing my clothing, I'm more grateful for gift cards (and even hand me downs!) and I think I'm generally happier because I'm not spending a lot of time opining about styles I don't have. In short, it simplified my life and it's something I'm hoping to replicate in other areas!
ReplyDeletethis is so great! you inspire me!
DeleteYou are so not alone on the gray hairs! I am 29 and have A LOT! They are congregating around my part, and it just makes me sad. They are more noticeable with darker hair too. Sigh...
ReplyDelete3 Cheers for new underwear! It is always a fabulous feeling!
these greys really kill me! right at my temple they are, little buggers. and yes, my butt is always so happy when i put that new pair on. le sigh.
DeleteI'm not so sure I could do the underwear thing, to be honest. But I'm proud of you for doing it. At this point, I'd likely be begging my state-side family to mail me replacements. I'm pretty good about clothes, because things are hectic and I don't have time to shop. I guess in that case, being so busy is a blessing because window shopping and misc mall visits are so infrequent. I like that way of looking at it, so I guess I'll stick with it :)
ReplyDeletethat's fantastic! i always wished i could just be happy looking- i always suffer from non-buyer's remorse :)
DeleteI recently decided to move home, and that's been my first lesson I'm really pushing on myself.
ReplyDeleteI unpacked my closet and saw so many clothes, and I decided that it had to stop... I don't need this much STUFF.
Stuff doesn't bring me happiness, it's not the things in our life that bring us joy and make our heart skip a beat.
It's the people, the music, the love, the laughter, the memories. As long as you have a roof over your head, people you love and food in your belly, you can achieve happiness.
"Collect moments, not things"
I totally agree! Why the heck did I ever own that much underwear/spend that much on cute undies?
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